im annoyed because im so traumatized over something stupid. i was in a rls about a year ago that was short, and i explained to (my current ex) that i was sa'd when i was younger. he said he understood but he often pressured me to do things in general and forced me to conform to his ideals in the relationship--making me feel like i didn't have a voice at all in the relationship. i explained to him my boundaries but he never minded crossing them at the expense of my feelings. he made me out to be the villian when i broke up with him, and i find myself constantly checking his instagram, and crying after seeing how good he's doing despite all the harm he's caused me.