My girlfriend and I are on a break. And while I know that us being on a break is a good thing for the future of our relationship, I don’t think we’re doing it properly it’s almost like instead of a break we just took a step back in our relationship we text less see eachother less but still do couple things. This is about developing independence for her because she began to resent me for “not feeling” the same way which is code for 24/7 interaction so in a way we’re doing that. But with the exception that she can’t say we’re still dating because for her this growth needs to be fully solo. While I want to wait, it feels like right now she’s getting the best of both worlds being with me and doing couple things but we’re not even actually together. And Iworry that I’ll just wait and wait and wait and she’s never ready to get back together