when i was just 11 years old, i just wanted to go play outside. but then my mom grabbed my arm and stopped me, and told me, "(my name), you're so beautiful and curvy. when you get older, no man will ever love you for your personality. you're so hot that men will only love you for your looks, and they'll never love you for you. you'll probably get raped multiple times" it was supposed to be a compliment.