I feel stuck with my partner. We’ve been together for 7 years, and we have 2 children together, and a daughter from another relationship and I feel like deep down neither one of us are really happy with each other. It shows in the way we treat each other. Neither of our emotional needs are being met. About a month ago he got drunk and said some things to me that I think came from deep down that he’s been feeling but too afraid to say. Things that he actually thinks but would never say, he said to me. Very hurtful things. He’s constantly angry and depressed and comes across as quite an ass. It especially shows when we are around other people, he doesn’t treat me kindly or caringly like I would like him to. I’ve tried to talk to him about it and he gets defensive, denies it, or shifts the blame onto me. It’s exhausting. I don’t know what to do. I have no place to go if I decided to leave him. I wouldn’t be able to make it on my own. 😔