I don't know if I'm in love with my boy best friend. I mean, he's kind to me and makes me feel important and included in something I thought I wasn't. But here's the situation: My so called "best friend" also likes him, even though he's made very clear to her and me that he doesn't want to have a relationship with her or to even like her at all. 2 months ago, he told me that he wanted to have those 2 things with her, but he changed his mind then and now because of her attitude towards him, me and my girl classmates. He couldn't talk to other girls because she instantly got jealous and mad. And whenever he tried to be affectionate to her, she just got mad and ignored him, even though that's what she wanted: For him to be al lovey-dovey with her. She's like, bipolar or something, but back to him. I've been trying to forget these feelings but I can't. Is it weird that I feel this way?