I have been doing findom stuff on the side in order to earn some extra money behind my partners back. We don’t have a car, my job only pays me so much, we’re losing money all the time, I feel like I had no other choice, but I know she is starting to suspect something and I just..don’t know what to do. I want to come clean because I love my wife and want to stay together; but I’m scared that telling the truth risks not only our marriage but us being able to see our son, or other random consequences.