I hate when other people around me vent or trauma dump. I know it's rude and pretentious and shit to say 'my trauma is worse than yours' but most of the time I feel like it is. Hearing other people use their past to justify or rationalize their bullshit makes me so fucking mad. Some guy told me that his parents abandoned him at some wilderness camp and yes that's awful but I don't need to hear about it any time he does something wrong.