This feels like a "am I the asshole for.." video type shit but oh well fuck. My girlfriend has been living with me for like 2 years. Completely free of charge I mean. I pay the rent fully, buy the food, I'm the only one working and you know what? I love her. So I dont mind doing this. What i do mind is in this kind of time when the month has been hard, i'm looking for a second job. I have 12 bucks on my card to finish the month. And she tells me she's going to the restaurant with her family for lunch. I know her family, been to their house many times, they like me I have zero problem with them. But she didnt invite me? She didnt even ask her parents if I could come- I havent eaten lunch in weeks because I keep the money to make dinner. I'm really frustrated by the lack of acknowledgment of all this. I'm genuinely upset and sad. I dont know what to do. I dont think its worth arguing.