me and my boyfriend have been going out for around 2 months now, we were best friends before this and it went on from there, we are in the same friendgroup full of boys and im the only girl, we all act pretty gay and stupid sometimes so its not uncommon to see them hugging, sitting on eachothers laps but they never like kiss or anything, me n my bf have this rlly close friend (for privacy ill call him joe), i started my period today and had to tell my bf 2 times that i wasnt intrested in doing anything and that i just wanted to lay down, him n joe than start mucking round and that turned into them thinking about their genitals and touching n all that, i moved to a roner were these blocks were so i couldnt see and sat there scrolling tiktok, after a while i heard my bf as joe is it okay if they do he didnt ask me.i could here them both touching themsleves they did not touch eachother but they both saw eachothers genitals, i do not know to feel about this