I have so much resentment inside of me right now. my boyfriend of 11 years has just bashed me. he completely compartmentalizes his life so no one knows anything really about anyone else. for years me and his mom hated eachother till one time after we got back together, she realized how much he lies through omission. she didint know most of the story just what he says. well anyway im back in school and i needed to pick up a job because he cant be financially responsible. long story short. he couldnt pay for something he should have been able to now im working while in school. i started this job a couple days ago and i find out hes been telling people at his job for years that im a neglectful mother and hes always had to take care of me and that i shot our house up in front of him and the kids one time. this person he works with told my new boss because she was concerned about my character from what hes said. NONE OF IT IS EVEN TRUE!?!?!? im so embarrassed. i would never do that to him.