So even though this was a problem a few months ago, it’s still been on my chest. I just broke up with this boy who I’ve been dating for about a year now, mostly because I was too burned out from the relationship, but also because of some boundary violation, I would rip my hand wave or move my face whenever I did not want to touch him or kiss him and he would grab my face back or grab my hand back and he wouldn’t listen to me, and then would make me feel like the bad guy, even though I said no stop quit explicitly. And I don’t know how to let it go, I do not know if my anger is justified, or if I’m just raging over nothing. But a violation of my bodily autonomy is something I do not play with and the fact that he couldn’t even take responsibility for that is pissing me off.