We let you date him and that was a mistake, a failure on my end. Just because my tongue was held did not mean mine own eyes were not open. I know he isn’t perfect, he is eccentric and he changes his ever so quickly. He truly did love you deeply and you crushed those delicate parts of himself and hurt him deeply. To let you back in our lives would be me lying to myself and compromising on our boundary. We are a package deal, you cannot have one with out the others.-Charlie