i love this guy, my ex. you would think, "who doesn't?". well, in my case we still talk to each other. we tried working things out and we talked about our past issues. he cheated on me (to be specifc i caught him being subbed to OF and visiting inappropriate sites, which he knew i considered cheating. plus talking to this other girl and using her to make me jealous after we broke up because of the former.) and we'd been on and off for nine months now. the reason was that he'd come back apologizing and promising to cooperate and fix things, so we'd talk but he'd refuse to talk it out and this would go on for about a week or two until he would break things off again. of course, it seems stupid of my part to let it go on this far. but this time, i let myself go out with someone else. he found out and came back, swearing he'd change. i only let him in because i realized i didn't feel the same way i did about him for anyone else, i couldn't. he got drunk and he left again. what do i do.