I honestly cannot be around people who act like they can’t do shit for themselves. I’d love for someone to do everything for me but I’m not going out of my way to be rude and demand people do things for me. I’ll do it myself before I’d ask someone else. It’s different to when someone offers to help you but otherwise it’s your responsibility. If you physically are capable of doing something then you should do it. I’ve lived around too many who just expect me to do things for them and they get upset when I tell them no but I have no obligation to them.