so my grandma is an alcoholic. she has been since her second husband left her, so around 15 years. she doesn’t want any help - she’s too prideful for that. but she’s killing herself. it all started getting bad in april when she had a migraine so she didn’t drink for a few hours and caused herself to have a withdrawal seizure. once she recovered, the doctors told her she will die in the next 5 years if she doesn’t quit drinking. today she had another seizure but this was a lot more severe than last time. she’s sedated in the ICU with breathing tubes and more. im not sad or afraid im just so fucking angry, how could she? she doesn’t care about the impact her addiction has on us. we filled in a form and one of the questions was “the most important thing to me is…” and i said “myself” and my mum said “alcohol” but we left it blank. if she dies i have nothing good to say about her at her funeral bc she’s made life unbearable. she can’t take accountability and now it’s too late.