Dear Bruce, I need to be honest and clear. I’m going to marry another man in a few months. I do love him, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. All of this was just trying to fill the void and nothing else. I knew there was no future for us. I don't think we’d click well as friends either. I’m sorry if I let you down and I thank you for things where you helped me out with. Love, X