So, I’m GenX (may not matter) & white. I was raised by a free thinking family (so I thought). At 20 I got pregnant, by a black man. By the time my daughter was 5 my mom was the only family member (besides my very racist father) that spoke to me. I NEVER heard my mom’s family say a negative word about any race, I knew where my father stood. I will say that when my dad saw his granddaughter he cried & changed. But how tf did I miss the fact mom’s family is racist? 30+ I haven’t heard from them, the universe protected us. My aunts, uncles are dying & are now asking me for forgiveness. I want to tell them to f**k themselves. They caused so much pain & mentally f**ked us up. I don’t want to be “the bigger person” I want them to see & feel our feelings I want them to ask my daughter for forgiveness not me. How. Tf. Did. I. Miss. This? They missed out on our love & joy! They believe in reincarnation (sp?) I hope they all come back as what they looked down on. Assholes