So I met this guy around 2 years ago, came across as charming, charismatic, confident and he seemed extremely interested at first. Thats where the love bombing started. I also need to mention that he met me at a point where I’d just turned 18 and rebelled from my toxic household I was living in with my parents. At first he made me feel welcome, made me feel safe, made me feel like I was special to him. Then came the humilating. He’d humiliate me, talk about our sex life to his mates as if I was some slut he’d found on the street right in front of my face. If i did anything that upset him, he’d give me the silent treatment, refusing to talk to me for days, even weeks. Then he’d come back eventually and say something along the lines of ‘had a rlly chaotic week, your the first person I messaged’ etc. Throughout our relationship I got addicted to cocaine as he was a frequent user and me being the girl that had turned 18 looking for an escape from her toxic household, i went down the route