There is this mentality in society (It seems to have become more prevalent today than it used to be) that sex is only sex when you "go all the way". It isn't brand new. I wish I could say it was, but Clinton said 30 years ago "I did not have sex with that woman" because she only sucked him off and he only got off from it once. They did call it oral sex. It involved one person putting another person's genitals in her mouth. I'm sure it felt good. For one person, it tasted good (must have, what else would have motivated her to do it?) I know I'm getting boned up thinking about it. No, it was sex, whether he redefined that word or not. It wasn't sexual intercourse, but it was definitely sex.