I met this person and I like her i'm very interested in getting to know her But it feels like every time I try to have some semblance of a conversation she tells me what she thinks I want to hear instead of what I actually want to hear-which is the truth I just want to know what's going on in her mind regarding planning on meeting up and what the plan is for this relationship Because I thought we were on the same page but it's pointing towards oh well we're going with a completely different plan... like she randomly put me in a group chat with her other partner and it turned out OK but she didn't even ask first and it was very abrupt and it wasn't talked about nor consensual And that's the part that scares me. Because I really enjoy this online but I'm scared that if I can't talk to her I can't play with her... BDSM