To the person who left note on the crossdressers how do you manage question. I keep being told to be positive and happy and just move on when all i have to work with is the same broken situation just minus some backstabbers. I cant't honestly tell you how to be less toxic, but apparently theres people that are meant to finally getchu or aomething. Half my likely life gone and all i have connections wise is a few stranglers who i know want to leave me and live for themselves. Im fine with that, i just wish there was some actual way to meet people that wasnt requiring 100 questions before i can ask anything. I'd say dont try to fix much on your side, people love saying stuff but dont like doing people maintenance themselves. It's better to at least live in your own head and before people say no... you gonna suddenly come in my life and help? It's best just living with some imagination. Too many barriers otherwise. Too bad youll still need a few people for supplies or assistance. Eh.