My wife of 7 years told me that she is in an emotional affair with someone from work and told me she wants a divorce. She said shes had feelings for this person for months. He quit. She told him how she felt, he told her he also has feelings. I am a pretty emotionally detached person. I am working on that in therapy. She told me that she feels like she doesnt know who i am because i dont talk about my feelings and my thoughts. She told me even if our marriage was rock solid she would pursue this guy. She does not want to try counseling either. I am so lost. Broken, I do not even know what to think right now. We are still living together and she still tells me she loves me too. Cuddles up to me. Its all so conflicting. I am trying to work on myself but I really only have her as my only friend and she has been being cold to me some days and doesnt want to be around me. I still want to be her friend but she is so infatuated with this other person that she only talks to me about the divorc