I haven't been engaged very long, and I am very well aware he has been married before, and idk if I'm being immature or if this is valid, but I have always wanted this one song to be for my father-daughter dance, and he just told me no because of his ex Im not sure if im being childish or not but this kinda hurts as i have planned a dream wedding since i was little and the song is the only thing that has never changed. I wish he understood how I was feeling, but it hurts me also because that song has always been special to me, and now I can't use it for my special day. It genuinely pisses me off that we start talking about weddings, and he keeps b up his ex-wife and his ex-partner. I don't know if he just isn't completely over them or no I hope I won't be a mistake &I hope he genuinely cares & all he does when he brings them up is make me worry that he wants to go back to them & it makes me very insecure and makes me feel extremely childish. Am I crazy or being immature idk.