i hate how almost every single boy i've met my age has said the n word at least once, if they never said it they definetely would've seen/heard their friend saying it without batting an eye. i've called out some before but they just don't realise what they are doing is wrong and i don't get how. of course women mature earlier then boys but there is no way their maturity is that low to not even understand the concept of basic human dignitity. if we learn the same things in school at the same age and at the same time why don't they know how to show basic empathy and compassion like girls. and its not simply biology, its a deeply rooted generational problem which im not sure will ever disappear. boys grow up exposed to content which is generally more violent, compared to girls. whether its yt, movies, toys or clothes you can see the drastic difference between things catered for boys and girls. a young boy doesnt just want to say a bunch of slurs its taught. i just want things to change