My mom keeps wanting to control my life. She won’t stop messaging me about where I stay when I come to my hometown. I moved out and live by myself an hour away and she still wants to tell me what to do. I’m not treated well when I’m at home, my dad is borderline mentally and emotionally abusive (I’m like 98% sure he’s actually a narcissist) and my mom doesn’t do anything about it, they treat me like a child and act like I’m immature when I try and come to an understanding if they try to boss me around. When I visit my hometown I usually stay with my friend but this last week I stayed at my bfs. He wasn’t even there! And she keeps messaging me that it’s embarrassing that I won’t stay at home and that i can’t stay at my bfs until we’re married. I’m an adult! I just don’t know what to do anymore. I feel bad for siblings that’re still at home.