I texted a friend to ask as something as simple as, I’m going for a walk would you like to walk with me? They can just text me yes or no. WHY THE FUCK WOULD THEY CALL ME TO SAY NO? LIKE ok!? I DONT NEED A FUCKING 15 minute conversation that I didn’t have capacity for. I’d look like the bad guy by not picking up. JUST FUCKING TEXT ME. and now they’re scheduling when I’m free to go on a walk next. THATS NOT HOW THIS WORKS! It was a casual invite for something that was convenient to the current weather situation on that day and I just happen to think it would be nice to invite them if they are free. They were not and that’s ok with me but NOW I guess to make up for it, they are fucking planning my next walk for me!? LIKE I JUST HATE HOW INCONVENIENT THIS IS. I feel like the bad person for thinking this is inconsiderate of them even though on paper it looks considerate because I know this is them trying to make up for saying no. JUST SAY NO THATS FINE! I DONT NEED ANOTHER OBLIGATION!