My mother isn’t a good person. My father is a pos and he treats the rest of us like shit but she won’t do anything about it. I’m close with her because she tries so hard to grow and be better and treat me better but she was supposed to PROTECT ME. SHE WAS SUPPOSED TO LOVE US ENOUGH TO STOP HIM. “At least he doesn’t abuse you” isn’t an argument, especially when he does! Apparently mental and emotional abuse doesn’t count tho, just cause he doesn’t hit us (I mean he does but it ain’t a beating, just a push and shove, grab, spank or slap here and there). She is genuinely so blind to how much he’s hurting her and the rest of us siblings. And HE DOESNT SEE HIMSELF AT ALL, HE 100% THINKS THAT HES A GOOD PERSON AND DOES THIS SHIT OUT OF “LOVE.” I finally moved away and I got out of it but I’m terrified for my little brother, I wanna protect him but I can’t while trying to heal myself. I just don’t want him to khs or anything. I’m so worried