I stopped being friends with my online friend of 7 months (met her through a friend of 3 years). She kept talking to me about her emotionally abusive ex and when I gave her advice she'd say he's getting better. I eventually asked her to stop talking to me about it and she did and said she understood why I wanted her to stop. She kept speaking about him so I lashed at her about him and she promised to stop by summer. She tried pretending that it wasnt him that she wasnt talk about and I found out the same day. She eventually cut contact with him. She defended the use of slurs (ableist, racist, etc) knowing I had autism and wasnt being performative and she only apologised so I'd drop it. Her father is also racist and she defended him. When I spoke to her about my feelings the first time she said she'd cut herself. I cut contact with her 3 or 4 days ago and she leaked my dms with my other friend who was venting about feeling unloved in their relationship.