i feel so trapped right now. im trying to plan out how to break up w my bf because things dont feel right but hes so attached, im worried hes gonna do smth bad if i end things. hes nice, and handsome and loving and loyal, but it just feels.. it feels like hes not the one. i feel like at this point, im with him out of pity.. ik that sounds bad of me to say and im probably in the wrong but ever since i learned bad things about him things haven’t been the same. hes told me hes become a better person since then, but i feel hes becoming better for ME, not himself. plus, were both drained from this relationship and its obvious. i dont feel like myself anymore and he genuinely just accidentally/unintentionally brings me and my mood down. i dont know what to do. he needs me but i dont need him.