My mom is always telling me and my other teenage brother how we give her additude and obviously I don’t think we are but today she was lecturing him about something in his room, I could tell he was tired also both of our doors were open so I kinda was listening but like mid way through my brother like broke down or something and started crying (well from what I heard) and he was saying how “I just don’t wanna talk to you right now mom!” I closed my door out of respect because I knew I wouldn’t want someone hearing me cry. But i immediately started crying too because that’s my big brother and I don’t want my mom to be so rude about asking him to fix his additude and he was just so sad. And later like after they finished talking I heard my mom say “fine do it your way! Don’t tell me anything!” And I started crying harder cuz why would she even say that like genuinely and I know how it feels to be in that position like that’s the worst possible thing to say.