I'm 21, almost 22, and I hate how I look. Really skinny body that arms that look like it's about to snap with big chubby cheeks. I can't wear anything tight without me looking like I have a mismatched body and head. I want to change it by trying to see if other people has been successful with cutting out sugar or salt. Every comment I see is just "You'll be happy that you look young!" I keep looking like I'm a kid playing dress-up with mommy's clothes. I get body positivity and all, but if I don't like something, then I don't like something. And I get to be able to not like something. Because me, still looking like 3 kids in a trench coat when I dress formal, is the truth and positive affirmation isn't going to make that go away. I already get enough from my mom by her saying that I "don't look mature enough." Saying I look young will not help me. And if it's something that I can change without it affecting my body in a major way, THEN LET ME DO IT.