I don’t really have anywhere else to say this but I love saying hot takes. If there’s another website or something that yk that’s good for mainly hot takes instead of venting LMK👀 anyway what people need to realize is these damn kpop idols are NOT ur friends just cus they speak English. It’s so weird seeing people try to be buddy buddy or ask/say super weird stuff in front of them because they understand you better. it’s just cause you communicate the same and yes they’re gonna give you fanservice js so you’ll buy shit, they’re not ur friends. Like I feel like people don’t realize that. They’re grown people, trust me they dgaf about you, they do for fans as a whole since they need support but not u individually. if more kpop idols/groups spoke English fluently and lived in the United States their would DEFINITELY be a huge sasaeng problem. Probably worse than Korea, since they only do that bc they’re in the same area. u can interact with them but they’re not ur best friebds