I hate how people say that others have it worse when you're talking about your problems. People say this because they want you to feel bad for having any problems. They say this kind of shit to the people that are doing worse too so they don't have to listen to their problems either. And it works. I see so many people deflect their struggles because someone 'has it worse'. You aren't the same people. Struggling is subjective, not objective. Comparing problems will not help you, it will make you struggle more. What you are going through is not less than or more than because we all have different limits. And they all change you as a person. And I will be uncomfortably honest; you are going to struggle with this too. It is a mindset nailed into our beings. But you will be/are/have been uncomfortable. Life is a series of struggles that you learn to live through. -'jnsy'