I see ppl ask “why do cheaters cheat” I can’t speak for everyone but I have cheated on someone. My “reason” which btw bullshit no excuses for hurting people, was I was being emotionally abused, trapped in the relationship unable to leave since she controlled my living situation, my car insurance was under her name, and I wanted to feel “loved” it wasn’t love it was attention. I’ve learned since and grown it was 6 years ago and I still think about how I hurt her every day. I will never forgive myself n that’s okay.